here you go (attached or: MEGA)
of course rename to remote.conf.
read the file as there are comments within to explain the mappings.
i think the method described/linked in my previous post using dmesg and debug will help you get the harmony sorted. its nice to have codecinfo and play/pause. thx for kszaq and others for the info.
Thanks for your help with this. Its going to be a few days before I can try this out, as I am packing for a move.