Please stop messing around with config.txt and do the very simple thing I told you: start from scratch with a fresh installation and only add the video parameter to cmdline.txt.
I'm very confident that adding that single option to cmdline.txt will solve your video problems and that the other issues you are seeing are caused by your messing around with config.txt / gpu mem / video driver etc settings.
You can save yourself and me a lot of time by following the advice I gave you.
so long,
Hias