I use a Flirc case in a semi-open space (small cabinet, behind a speaker-cloth screen) and play all kinds of media. I've not seen issues with RPi4 and cooling since the early pre-production boards which were toasty warm (and before the first flirc case samples shipped). I see no problems with HDR content either (no DV, but you won't get that on Allwinner either). I run a deliberately simple setup .. default skin, Gb Ethernet to a switch and all content on a Synology box in the Network because USB drives and cables everywhere are a pain in the arse. I have cables and AVR that will do 4K@60 but the only content I can find is test media so I don't bother enabling support and leave things in the default up-to 4K@30 mode. I avoide CEC as I have too many test boards hooked up and it's not reliable and missing things I care about. I have a simple BT remote which is good. RPi4 is the least drama device I own - I think minor changes to your setup solve most of the issues.
I'll let others chime in with advice on Allwinner and RK devices.