Damn it!! It was finally it!! Windows was cheating on me.. I can connect now with ssh.
However I see i can’t connect with vnc.. installed vnc on Rpi and it gets connected but seems it has “bad reception” and can’t really see libreelec screen. Are network tools needed for that? Will look deeper on that but huge step. Thank you very much everyone for your support.
I see that vnc issue is solved by setting image quality to Low, otherwise it does not connect.. Weird but OK.