Is there a conf file that allows you to add a parameter to the command launched by the interface?
Or is it possible to mount this DVD drive other than SCSI?
I never heard about such options. I think it's all hard coded. You could write a bug report, or wait for LE 10, which will get a face lifting.
PS: I was just reading that /storage/.config/udev.rules.d provides some editable mount options. Have a look at this.