Which LE version are you using? LE 9 (alpha) contains significant improvements in IR remote handling that make them react a lot snappier.
If sometimes button presses aren't recognized make sure you have good IR reception - try placing the IR somewhere else - and you have fresh batteries in your remote. Worn out buttons, interference from fluorescent lights or direct sunlight, and the type of IR receiver (there are better and not so good ones) can also cause issues.
You can adjust the repeat delay (time until repeat kicks in) and repeat period ("frequency" of repeat) with the ir-keytable parameters -D (delay) and -P (period). eg add this to your autostart.sh to let repeat kick in after 750ms and then repeat 4 times a second:
so long,
Hias