Here is what happens - it connects for a second, shows movies, then drops to this, reconnects, shows 1 second, drops - over and over.
Does no one else at all have an iPad? All you need is an iPad to test this. (Note, my Pi4 is on Ethernet, obviously the iPad is on wifi).
We just need someone else on an iPad to test this really........
Video of the problem below.... hope it works....?!