Thank you - I've tried that already but it doesnt work - changed 5 different cables but no luck
OK, then it's probably not the HDMI cable.
My final idea is that your TV uses special CEC codes, which are not yet implemented for RPi4B.
You could write a bug report, and become a part of the solution.
Write the full TV model name, and give a link to this thread, so devs can know about what you already did.