It is ok to call me dumb
A fresh reinstall of LE solved the problem. It can now do EAC3 passthrough.... I had only tried to reinstall using old backups.
I lost all settings, addons, library etc ofc but it was still worth it.
In LE, go to:
System / Settings / System
Change: Settings level to expert
Then go to Kodi audio settings and select all compatible receiver modes
I had it on expert from the start. The options for EAC3 just weren't there.
Thank you for the tips anyway