I have absolutely no clue what I did differently but I reformatted and reinstalled libreelec and went through the whole tvheadend setup again and it works perfectly now. Must have been a setting somewhere that I accidently messed up, sorry to waste your time. Of course I get it working right after I make a post about it
??? Kodi doesn't support the h/w tuners, and TVHeadend doesn't support Windows.
I said that in case someone suggested the tuner card itself was having a hardware issue, I didn't mean to suggest that I was running tvheadend on windows.