Even the 3 wire solution seems to come with a whole heap of SW issues to get it working its doesn't just seem like plug and play.
I'm using this type of IR receiver for years and didn't had any problem. Your remote looks like it's a MCE RC6 one, that code is the default supported by LE. So for that remote to work with RPi, you need the "3 wire solution" and in the config.txt enabled the line with "dtoverlay=gpio-ir,gpio_pin=18". That's all.