The previous versions contained no driver for the apple remote at all
We added the apple-ir driver because we got reports that atvclient no longer worked without it. Also using lirc with the macmini / usbhid driver seems to require it.
Unfortunately none of us LibreELEC developers have such hardware to test.
BTW: are you using atvclient? If yes, uninstall it, then reboot, then ssh in, run the command from above and test again if wakeup works.
IIRC atvclient unbinds the USB device so the command I posted could silently fail. Without atvclient probably only ENTER and volume up / down will be working, but that should be enough to test this. Better connect a USB keyboard during tests though.
If that works, install atvclient, check if the remote works normally, and then check if suspend / remote wakeup works. Don't reboot in between, otherwise the wakeup settings from manually running wakeup_enable might be lost.
so long,
Hias