Sorry for using too technical terms, the simple version is: the remote is queried only 4 times a second on your DVB dongle and that results in it being sluggish (there's probably not much we can do about that) and the repeat issues (that's a problem with all current kernels and I'll look into finding a solution - could be a bit tricky and may take some time).
As for remotes: I'd recommend using an official (or fully compatible like the HP branded ones) MCE remote together with the HP branded USB MCE IR receiver from ebay for about 15-20 EUR shipped. Official MCE remotes are the ones best supported in Linux and LibreELEC and the HP USB IR receiver works very well too and can be used with all kinds of other remotes as well - I have these here and regularly test with them.
Be careful when searching for MCE remotes on ebay or other shopping sites, there are a lot remotes advertised as "MCE" that don't follow the rc-6 MCE protocol. Same thing applies for "MCE USB IR receivers", some of them, like the cheap TopSeed receivers that are often advertised on ebay, have nasty bugs - better stay away from them and go for the known-good HP branded one.
Another cheap and very versatile option on RPi is to connect a TSOP 34138 IR receiver to the GPIO pins. For about 1-2 EUR/USD you'll have a full-fledged IR receiver that's very well supported in Linux/LibreELEC. This is what I'm using on my main RPi. The only gotcha is that some USB DVB dongles seem to interfere with it (low-level timing issues caused by the RPi's USB driver) - I haven't experienced such issues myself and also don't know if you'd be affected by that or not.
so long,
Hias