So yeah as you might guess from my Name my soul Purpose is to tell you that this Problem still exists.
only Thing i changed was the lightdm so it wouldnt boot in CLI but in Desktop.
now it wont boot in Desktop ever again with the same exact promt as posted in this thread.
had to reflash my SD and i used an older Image which i luckyli had laying around.
autocorrect created this uppercase/lowercase mess. sorry for that.
btw. i had been using the most recent raspian buster full Image on the Raspberry 3 a+
now im back to stretch.
i just want a goddamn pi that boots into Desktop.
my other one is doing it just fine.
probably wont be reading any replies.
cheers
Robert