Display MoreSwitched to coreelec 9.0.1 simply by putting the coreelec update into the Update folder an then did a reboot.
All Problems gone,
CEC Poweron works
no flashing white bars on the right side of the screen anymore
no sudden stops on live tv or recordings
no skip problems anymore
really satisfied
I also switched to CoreElec 9.0.1 and have working CEC. Everything else seems to work too. Excellent!
I was not able to upgrade by just putting the update in the .update folder. I rebooted and the update process seemed to proceed. There was an error, however, and my odroid failed to boot, so I had to do a full installation and that worked. I restored the backup I created of the .kodi directory and my library was intact. I don't know if I'm going to run into problems in the future by doing it this way but we'll see.
Hopefully this gets fixed in libreelec but it seems I'm now a coreelec user...