I would suggest you both contact Realtek and urge them to get their drivers added to the mainline kernel. I want to see less out-of-tree Realtek drivers in LibreELEC (ideally: none) and not more, as they're an absolute nightmare to support, so I don't think the RTL8812BU will be supported any time soon I'm afraid.
Realtek really do need to get their sh*t together and stop releasing hardware without in-tree kernel support and then leaving it up to the open source community to bail them out by providing drivers of variable quality.
It's unfortunate that you've already bought the Realtek hardware, with luck maybe you can get a refund and purchase hardware from a vendor (Intel, Broadcom) that has done the right thing and pushed their driver upstream.