well for the time being i think ill have to go the old school route, as im giving my inlaws the box friday morning.
I have already added quite a few other scripts and services to help me help them this was/is the final herdle to make it totally hands off for them, but I already learned to make simple udev rules, learned some new abilities of systemd services (being able to pass argements to a script) and furthered my scripting knowledge, but learning to build, test and deploy this seems a little much for spare time today and tommorrow lol
thanks tho, and i may still try this, but for a later date