OMG I have my lcd i2c working after using info from here i played for ages and wasn't getting it right was about to give up when wife called me to come eat dinner i had rebooted pi and one last time after making no additional changes which had not work prior to that but i was like wtf...when i returned i had display
my other screen was on a different address so i changed address and rebooted "nothing" played more and "nothing" so i left it to go make coffee when i returned it worked so basically im saying when testing leave for a minute or two before u change more settings as you might have it right an not know it
hope this useless info helps someone LibreELEC (Krypton) v7.90.008
if anyone needs it here are my files
/storage/.kodi/userdata
lcd.rar
/storage/.kodi/addons
service.lcdd.rar
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last but not least is the hd44780 file that gors into /storage/lcd
lcd.rar