i was able to workaround the problem on my craptop. using ssh i tryed
xrandr --output LVDS1 --off --output VGA1 --mode 1920x1080 --auto --primary
the screen whent black. no mater what i did after turning off the lvds.
i then tryed restarting x after turning off lvds but this just made lvds turn back on.
I then found that restarting kodi after turning off LVDS worked.
systemctl restart kodi
so then figured out how to automate this.
make a file called autostart.sh in
ssh /storage/.config/autostart.sh
smb /Configfiles/autostart.sh
put the xrandr command in it.
dos not need the systemctl command in it
now just to figure out why frame rate is so bad now.